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April 26, 2025

Going Deeper — In Conversations and Relationships

In a world of curated highlight reels and shallow small talk, real connection can feel like a lost art. In this episode, Chris and Patrick argue that deep, meaningful connection requires us to be a little messy, a little vulnerable, and a lot more intentional. They explore why we often…

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April 12, 2025

How to Give Feedback (Without Making It Weird)

🎙️ Episode Summary: In this episode of Making Yourself Clear, Chris and Patrick take on one of the most misunderstood and misused tools in communication: feedback. They begin by rejecting the outdated “compliment sandwich” and offer a fresh, practical perspective on what actually makes feedback land—and what makes it awkward…

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April 8, 2025

Apologies That Don't Suck (Short #1) #apologies #communicationskills #buildingmeaningfulconnections

In this episode, Chris and Patrick dive deep into the art of genuine apologies. They explore why most apologies fail, the anatomy of a real apology, and how to avoid common pitfalls when apologizing. The hosts emphasize that effective apologies aren't about relieving your own guilt but about acknowledging harm,…

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April 5, 2025

Apologies That Don't Suck

In this episode, Chris and Patrick dive deep into the art of genuine apologies. They explore why most apologies fail, the anatomy of a real apology, and how to avoid common pitfalls when apologizing. The hosts emphasize that effective apologies aren't about relieving your own guilt but about acknowledging harm,…

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March 14, 2025

The Five Levels of Listening

In this episode, we explore the five levels of listening and how they impact communication, relationships, and personal growth. The discussion covers the importance of deep listening, common barriers, and techniques to enhance listening skills. Listeners will gain insights into how they can become more present and engaged in conversations,…

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Feb. 18, 2025

How to Keep Friends and Influence People

Chris and Patrick explore strategies for discussing heated topics with people you strongly disagree with. They emphasize the importance of understanding why you want to have such conversations, preparing for emotional triggers, and having a game plan. They recommend being intentional about your mindset — advocating dialogue over debate, perspectives…

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Feb. 18, 2025

Don't Agree to Disagree. Here's What to Do Instead.

Chris and Patrick discuss the pitfalls of the suggestion "let's agree to disagree" in arguments, highlighting that it often leaves one or more parties feeling unheard and frustrated. They emphasize the need for mutual understanding before reaching such a conclusion. They argue that "agree to disagree" often signals the end…

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